My clients often feel like they are not good enough to be successful
in business. Not smart enough, not savvy enough, dont have enough
experience, or money, or not attractive looks. I know the feeling. Ive
been there on some of these but I didnt let them stop me. And
I dont want this to stop you on your path to doing work you love
and being paid well for it.
Here are 5 tips to get past
the not good enough gremlins.
1. Create a file for thanks
yous and testimonials. I have a testimonial outlook
folder. When I get an unexpected kind word from someone, thanking me
for something I did for them or raving about the result they got after
following a tip I gave, I pop it into my testimonial folder. I use these
in my marketing materials AND they also pick me up when Im feeling
unsure about my abilities.
2. What is good enough?
Asking yourself questions is a great way to bust out of the not
good enough feeling. What would be good enough? Youll almost always
find that you already have enough related experience and information
to be good enough!
3. What would have to
happen? Ask yourself, What would have to happen to make me
feel good enough? Youll either realize that youve
already got what it takes or youll know what your next step is
to keep moving forward.
4. What would I do if
I were brave? And why am I wasting time not doing it? Mark Twain
said Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence
of fear. Each time you do something that brings up fear, you get
stronger and are able to accomplish bigger and bigger steps with less
and less fear. It is easier to act your way into thinking differently
than it is to think your way into acting differently. Take a baby step,
get into action and leave the fear behind!
5. Write down accomplishments
you are proud of. Think of 3-5 times in your life when you have
done something youre proud of. Can be big or small ... times you
felt good about what you did. Write briefly about what the situation
was and what skills and character traits you brought to the situation
to reach the outcome you are proud of. This will instantly lift your
spirits and remind you of all the qualities and knowledge you bring
to every situation.
You are MORE than good enough
to do anything your heart desires. That is the truth that I know about
you!