What do you do when you hit a problem in your business? Maybe its
how to generate more income, how to build a client list or how to create
an information product. Too often you might find yourself getting stopped
by a problem and just giving up. Heres what you can do to get
past those problems and on to doing what you love to do.
Jim Rohn, the wonderful motivational
speaker, said to go inside first and see if you can come up a solution.
If that doesnt work, go to a book or internet sources to see if
you can find an answer. If that doesnt work, ask someone else
who is where you want to be. This is good advice. Lets explore
further.
1. Go inside. You
have an extraordinary amount of wisdom right inside yourself from
your past experiences and from your natural preferences. One great way
to get your answers from within is to take some time to get quiet. Make
a list of teachers youve had that made a positive impact on you.
Some may have been conventional teachers; others may be people you met
who were not in a classroom. You can even consider famous people, people
who have died or you havent met in person but you learned something
valuable from them. Now choose one that jumps out at you right now.
Now write out a dialogue
between you and this person. Ask him/her for advice. I can bet you will
find some powerful insights into how to solve your problem
2. Get some more information.
When someone tells me theyre stuck on a problem, I quickly
assess whether it is a lack of information that is the real problem.
It often is. Im amazed at how many people dont take the
time to seek information through books and the internet. Often there
is someone out there who has solved a problem similar to yours and you
can quickly get ideas about how to solve your problem.
3. Ask someone else. If
you still cant figure out how to get past your problem after going
inside and doing some research...now is the time to ask someone else.
Most people are willing to share information and help you IF you show
them that you have done some research prior to asking them. Its
startling how many people ask me for advice and information and when
I ask them what theyve done so far to solve their problem...they
say nothing.
Ill give you a concrete
example. You want to run a tour business. You dont know where
to start and feel overwhelmed every time you think about this idea...but
it just wont go away.
First, you take time and
journal with your teacher within. You have a dialogue and get encouragement
from the teacher that you are on the right track. You even get some
ideas about where you would like to lead tours and get a strong sense
of the feelings of satisfaction and joy youll get when you achieve
this goal.
Now you think, I dont
know how to start. What insurance do I need? How do I hire a bus? What
kind of outdoor microphone will I need so that people can hear me? How
will I find people to enroll for my tours?"
So you go to Google and type
in how to lead tours. You get nothing useful. So you try,
how to be a tour guide. Bingo. You get a great article with
lots of information and a link to an online course on the topic. You
subscribe for the course. You then do an Amazon search and find a book
that looks great on this topic so you order it.
After youve taken the
course and read the book, you are about 100% confident that youd
like to achieve the goal of becoming a tour guide but youd like
to talk to some people who are actually doing it to get the real scoop
on what its like and maybe ideas on how to break into the field.
Now, if you dont already
know someone in the field, its time to look up a few people in
the field, approach them by email to request a 20 minute informational
interview by phone. Send an email that says that you are interested
in entering the field, youve taken a course and read about the
field and now want to get some real world information.
Tell them that youll
have 5-10 questions prepared before the call and that youd be
happy to email the questions to them prior to the call. You might want
to ask what the best part of their work is and what the worst part of
their work is. Dont ask specific salaries, though you may ask
what would be an expected range of pay for a beginner and for someone
advanced in the field.
People are generally very
happy to help out, happy to share information about work they love AND
they will be impressed that you did your research prior to seeking them
out.
So go ahead. Whats
a problem you have? Try the 3 steps above and get unstuck now!